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Can AI be a Therapist? What Virtual Exchange Taught Me About AI

By Brenda Erica Niesz

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Brenda Erica Niesz
3rd year preservice EFL teacher
INSPT UTN
Argentina

We’ve officially hit the point where we let technology handle, well, everything. Your smartwatch tells you when you're stressed, your phone tracks your sleep and an algorithm is currently deciding what you’re going to buy next. But as Artificial Intelligence creeps deeper into our daily routines, it’s nudging us toward a much bigger, slightly uncomfortable question: Would you trust a chatbot with your mental health?

Even more pressing for educators: how can we prepare teenagers for a world where AI doesn’t just write their essays, but potentially mediates their emotional support, communication, and big life choices?

These exact questions became the heart of a Virtual Exchange (VE) project I recently took part in. Orchestrated by Professor Marina Falasca, our Methodology I class at INSPT UTN in Argentina was tasked with creating a "didactic sequence"—essentially a structured learning roadmap—centered on AI and teenagers. But we weren’t doing this in a vacuum. We did it via a multicultural virtual exchange, pairing up with preservice teachers from a higher education institution in the United States.

After swapping life stories and getting to know my teammate from the US, we realized we both shared a massive passion for student wellbeing. We didn’t want to just build a generic lesson plan. Driven by a "multiliteracies" perspective, we set a double goal: give students the tools to critically judge AI (media, critical, and rhetorical literacy), and keep the classroom entirely student-centered to foster real independence.

Designing the Lesson: Beyond "Yes" or "No"

By week two of the exchange, we zeroed in on our core theme: Can, or should, AI function as a mental health companion for adolescents?

Using a task-based framework, we built a learning journey that didn’t just dump students into a debate. We started with what we call input-based activities—having students analyze real-world podcasts and articles. From there, we layered on "scaffolding" strategies (think guided questions and structured tasks) to help them navigate a topic that is frankly pretty heavy.

We deliberately pushed students away from lazy, binary "AI is good" or "AI is evil" stances. Instead, we wanted deep, critical thinking. The final milestone? An awareness campaign where students had to analyze media sources for bias, evaluate the reliability of AI, and create arguments tailored specifically to their own peers.

The Good: AI as a Cognitive Safety Net

During our virtual exchange, it became obvious that AI does have a superpower in education. It is an incredible cognitive and linguistic support tool.

Brainstorming partner: It can help students break through writer's block.

Concept simplifier: It can translate dense, academic jargon into plain English.

Language mediator: For multilingual and multicultural classrooms, AI can be a massive confidence booster, acting as a safe space to practice and process language without fear of judgment.

The Reality Check: Simulation Isn't Empathy

But here is where we have to draw a hard line. Large Language Models (LLMs) are incredibly good at mimicry, but they do not possess consciousness, emotional understanding, or genuine empathy.

The Hard Truth: AI doesn't feel. It predicts language. It looks at massive datasets and calculates the most statistically likely words to follow your prompt.

When a chatbot tells a lonely teenager, "I'm here for you, I understand," it doesn't understand human suffering, vulnerability, or the messy complexity of life. It’s just simulating emotional support.

When it comes to adolescent mental health, that distinction is dangerous. Let’s not forget that these AI systems operate within corporate frameworks designed to maximize screen time, engagement, and data collection. Relying on an algorithm for emotional survival instead of reaching out to a human support network introduces serious ethical risks.

That’s why our lesson plan framed AI very clearly: It is a tool, not a therapist. It cannot replace a human relationship, a teacher, a counselor, or a parent.

Rethinking the Future of Education

If this virtual exchange taught us anything, it’s that schools can no longer treat AI as an "outside world" issue. It is already tangled up in how students communicate, learn, and form their identities.

Banning these tools doesn’t work, but blindly trusting them is a recipe for disaster. The future of learning requires us to teach informed, ethical engagement. As teenagers navigate a hyper-connected world, we must equip them with the critical thinking skills to spot bias, question algorithmic motives, and recognize exactly where technology ends—and where human empathy and judgment must begin.

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